How to know if he is possessive or hypocrite

 Nowadays men are becoming more hypocrites. That means they will have rules for you and no rules for themselves. Sometimes you cannot tell the difference where men/boyfriends have rules for your own good or for their own ego satisfaction. We will discuss some of the behavior changes which will tell you if he is a hypocrite or possessive. Before moving further let me know what type of relationship crisis are you facing and I can make some guidelines to get you out of the situation.  

Rules about social media.

There are around 98% of a couple who had their fight about the social media platform(Facebook, Insta, Snapchat)you might wonder if he is being possessive or hypocrite. let's find below.

Possessive: if your boyfriend has a suggestion for you about your few male friends. Then he might be right cause boy knows better boys than girls. They will know what intention he has as a friend and he just wants you to be safe. you should appreciate that there is someone in your life who cares for you. Don't think that he is not giving you space/Privacy. Put your ego aside and make sure you appreciate that you have someone in your life to take care of you.

Hypocrite: When you notice that he have a problem every like every post or every pic you post on social media and he is asking you to unfollow/unfriend all male friends of yours then you will know he is a hypocrite and you should end it as soon as possible. One more reason to break up is that you will find him always using social media platform but asks you not use anymore. End it immediately don't wait till Christmas.

Rules about your dressing 

 

there can numerous times where he will tell you that you should only wear full clothes and no more mini skirts spaghetti straps sleeveless etc, now how can you tell whether he is possessive or he is a hypocrite.

Possessive: These types of the boyfriend are the on who will tell you to dress properly instead of commenting how cheap you look. they will always try to give you the legitimate reason why they are acting like that .may be the area or the surrounding is not appropriate to the dress or style. after a while, you will be able to understand that the reason he is giving you that advice about your dressing. keep an open mind before getting into a fight.

Hypocrite: this type of boyfriends will give you 100 reason why you should change your style and wear full sleeves of full length dress. so how to know if he is possessive or hypocrite .there is a simple solution he will ask you to change your dressing sense permanently and won't be able to handle your modern styling of choices of dress. When you know he hates all of your wardrobe that means he is hypocrite.

Rules about every aspect of your life 

 

Now dressing styling and social media is one thing but when you feel that the person is asking you to change everything for him them it’s confirmed that he is being selfish and don’t want you to have your opinion or thinking

Possessive: When you have boyfriend that really cares for you then you will know that he don’t hate you from where you belong or what are your surroundings .all they will care about is what type of person you are and what quality you have. Being possessive means he will respect every aspect of your life may won’t accept. May be he won’t like where you live or relatives or friends circle but he will eventually try to make you understand that you different he will try to make sure that you are safe and secure,

Hypocrite: Every aspect of your life will not be tolerated by him. All he will thinking about how to make you realize that he is doing you favor by accepting you and you should be lucky to have him. If you are in relationship similar to this situation then I would suggest you leave him and never look back even if it means you have to be alone forever.

The reason I am telling you is he will always make you feel the same way and instead of being partner he will be your boss and will make you feel in wanted all the time

 

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5 Tips to overcome from relationship insecurity

STOP BEING INSURE AND HAVE WHAT LIFE IS GIVING YOU INSTEAD OF HAVING FEELING OF LOSING......... IT TRY TO ENJOY!!!

I have been spending time on quora (where people ask questions )for a while where I got to know more than 60% have some type of insecurity in their relationship. today we will be working on the issue that why you have that insecurity and how you can overcome it. This is not limited to girls but even boys can read it and take advantage of it. If you like the ways I am about to tell you then please let me know in the below comments.

1.Past is Past

 

What is this insecurity is all about?

There are two types of security here 

 

A.this is a type of security most people have when they are in 2 or 3 or more relationships than 1.the reason you have this insecurity is when you know that you have not ended the past relationship on good terms. 

B.there are few incidents that happened in the past which you are afraid might affect your current relationship or future relationship. this incident is not related to your past relationships (love life) it is related to a traumatic incident with you or that happened to close ones. this can be dangerous one can kill your confidence to be in a relationship

How to overcome

In case A: Get closure (end the unresolved issue )that is the most important thing before you can go into any new relationship. The unresolved issue can give back all the bad memories and experiences you went through in the last relationship. If you have not done the full closure you might end up losing confidence to have a perfect long-term relationship.

In case B.I know the fact that giving advice is easy but following is difficult. Try to forget about the traumatizing situation that happened in the past is past." Everything that happens once can never happen twice. But everything that happens twice will surely happen a third time".trauma accident happens once and might happen again to you. Try to forget and move forward with life.ITs are not easy.Try to have baby steps. try to make friends, go outside have a hobby. life will give plenty of chances to have a beautiful and honest relationship/Life in the future. Don't hold yourself. Don't make it hard on your nobody can help you except you

An important point to remember

1.Be Honest

2.Have closure (with your ex or past)

3.Be confident

4.Lose the insecurity it won't help you. it will drag you down

2. Fear of Ex-boyfriend

 What is this insecurity is all about:Either it will be point 1 or you have a feeling that your ex is still a better person than your current boyfriend/girlfriend. If you have felt like this you have insecurity to your relationship at the next level. there can be two possibilities one you are still in love with your ex or you have marked your standard too high that your current boy/girlfriend is not able to fulfill your needs.

How to overcome: You must understand past is past and as your ex is no more in your life you should not think or compare your current relationship to the previous one. your insecurity can cause you the current and happy relationship you have. Pst is never going to be your future stop trying to make him/her like your ex and accept the person as it is and have another beautiful experience. stop being insecure and have what life is giving you.

An important point to remember

1.     1,Stop comparing 

2.    2. appreciate what you have now

3.     3.be true to him

4.     Do not keep secret about a past relationship

3.Family, Class, etc

 

What is this insecurity is all about:I can tell you about Indian society where two people are more concerned about the family and their class difference before going into the relationship. Especially in India people where people prefer to fall in love with some from their class /cast. when you are in a relationship where the people are from different community cast then you tend to develop insecurity about the relationship and often fail to keep up the relationship

How to overcome:if you are confident enough to be in a relationship be confident to face the ups and down .there is nothing called free lunch. life won't give eveything on silver platter. you have to face those people.beign insrecure wont help you in long run. to overcome your insecurity you have to face the facts that people will and family and fight them. IF you love him/her you will know he/she is worth fighting .stop being insecure and start being confident 

An important point to remember

Go with flow

Be confident 

money age is just numbers

cast and creed is for uneducated ones

 

4.Beauty and the beast 

What is this insecurity is all about:Most of the couples, these days are just more into the looks than the person underneath it. This is just one of the myths people have to develop insecurity between them.He/she deserves better OR in some cases, I deserve a better-looking person. When you are feeling this then you are partner will increase the insecurity about the relationship. don't let other people feel how beautiful or handsome a person can be and they are not .this type of behavior  encourage to lose confidence in your partner

 How to overcome:if you feel that person around you is making you feel insecure then you are in the wrong relationship. There can be two reasons the person is behaving one is where he wants you to be more confident and help you to grow your personality or he is more into someone he/she cannot have and you are in the wrong relationship. In either case, if you feel you need to develop you can take advise how one is looking or wearing right types of cloth or their confidence. And if you are interested in changing yourself then get out of the relationship this insecurity will be there if you keep having an insecure feeling.

An important point to remember

1.     your decision to change yourself

2.     Don't let anyone judge you

3.     few changes won't hurt if you care for him/her

 

5. Education

What is this insecurity is all about: This type of insecurity arises in you when you feel another person is more educated more mature and more sensible than you. if you feel that whatever the person is saying should always be true, just because he more educated then you need to make some changes in your relationship, you have this feeling and as the days pass by these feelings will be getting stronger. Those people who have the insecurity is not limited to education it can be career-related status-related

How to overcome:Now there can be plenty of suggestions but as I have been through I can tell you it's so hard to overcome your insecurity. the important thing to remember is you are no less than any other girl you wish to be. the main key is confidence.If you don't have confidence pretend to have one .girls are very good at acting so it will create the illusion that you are not insecure and slowly and gradually overcome your security

An important point to remember

1.     confidence is key

2.     Act like your confidence

3.     don't show your insecurity to anyone 

 

 

 

7 ways to boost your confindence

 7 ways to boost your confidence  

 There are several ways proven to build your confidence but when we talk about love the rule have altogether a different set that needs to be understood. I can tell because I am in relation of 10 years and happily married to same person. I have few tips for you to be confident that even you can be in love. Let’s get started

1. He /she should be opposite to you:

Now there are two ways to look into this point

A. when you are you and you choose the person with same taste same hobbies same behavior it will drive him/her away .After a while there will be less things to talk about less things to care about and less things to think about each other. If you keep on meeting the same person you will drop your confidence drastically.

B. When person you choose is opposite to your taste style and behavior you tend to have more interesting conversations interesting way to spend time together and you will learn new thing about your partner. Dealing with all new things   will boost your confidence and instead of hesitating in a relationship you will live happily

   

 

2. Analyze past mistakes

You need to work on the mistakes that you have done in past to make sure you are not repeating the same mistakes again and again. Think what made you end the relationship or what led to big fight all you have to worry about not repeating the same mistake. It will lead to lower your confidence in your future relationships

3. Don’t be too needy

Try to run the things on their own speed. If you think you are needy then take step back and try fix this problem first before going into the relationship. If you are needy your partner will sense it. Don’t ask for too much in little time of span. For example it’s been 2 months of relationship and you want her/his full attention you have to give them some space before asking for their 24*7 attention.

4. Drop your insecurity

If you know you have been insecure from the past relationship then you have to drop your insecurity. Your insecurity may become the reason to end relationship for your partner and more time it happens the more your confidence level go down. If you trust and love the person there is no place for insecurity in your relationship. If you are insecure then you are in wrong relationship

 

5. Self-respect

One of the main reasons for your low confidence is you lack of respect you have for yourself then don’t expect your partner to respect you .one of the reasons that you have more failed relationship then success one. Respect yourself your decisions and your partner will respect you and it will surely boost your confidence.

6. Give advice

It will helpful for your confidence when start giving suggestion when you will be able to think what is wrong and right you will then know that you are ready to be in relationship. More the advice you give more the situation you will come to know and you will have better handle on situation.

7. Flirt

flirting will be most important part of confidence try to flirt little if you are shy try to flirt online nowadays technology is vast and if you are shy try to flirt with chatting that will boost your confident and then try it on random girls (that means your female friends and does not mean any random girl) before you can flirt with crush. If you don't have female friends then I will give you some tips to make girl to become your friend soon. Keep checking the blog

 

PLEAE LET US KNOW WHAT TIPS YOU WANT AND IF YOU HAVING ANY LOVE LIFE CRISIS OR ISSUE FEEL FREE TO ASK US IN THE COMMENTS BELOW

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7 important things in relationship

 7 important things in relationship

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  If you have relationship or about to enter in relationship. These are the few important things you should think about and make sure everything is falling on the place.
  
  
  

  1.    Don’t tell anyone
  
  Its you and him that matters in a relationship. If you share all the details and communication of your partner to other people they start running their imagination and they will start suggesting you what they feel without know him/her. Don’t tell everyone not even your best friend everything it will kill your relationship. If someone ask how it is going tell them usual relationship crisis or is all good.

   

  
  
  

  2.Self respect
  
  Respecting him/her as person is different than having self-respect of your won Being in a committed relationship will make you realize is not everything is about you or your selfish problems. Relationship will teach you to that other person is as important as you are but that doesn’t mean you lose your self-respect. You can change yourself for him/her but not too much. Anytime in relationship you fell that you are losing your self-respect in battle of winning him/her then it will best time you should end the relationship with him/her

  
  
  
  
  

  3.Trust
  
  It is the Important for you to trust the other person to be in relationship. If don’t trust other person no point of getting into the relationship
  
  

  
  
  
  4.Honesty
  
  Honesty is quality which is not for sale. If both of you are honest to each other than your relationship will run along .Honesty is one of the major reasons why relationship lasts longer than the hooks or time pass relationships. Honesty means be true to the person if no intention to cheat you don’t even have to try to be honest it will be there without any efforts
  
  
  
  
  5. Respect
  
  Going in relationship doesn’t mean you owe the other person .Try Respect each other’s decision his/her privacy their parent the things that other person have value. Respecting and valuing thing will make good impression on your loved ones. Try to respectful for the small thing he/she cares about

   

  
  
  

  
  

   

  6. Communication
  
  you might have hears a lot that communication is the key. Yes its true communication is the key to happy relationship. You should tell about if you are sad about his behavior or things he/she said. If you want to avoid constant fighting communicate with each other

   

  
  
  

  
  

  7. Loyalty
  
  Loyalty is when you tell him/her about your past and make sure you are not hiding anything which can damage your current relationship. If you take survey or check in google you will find those people who are loyal to each other have happy and long lasting relationship.

   

  
  
  

  
  

   

   

  IF YOU HAVE ANY RELATIOSHIP CRISIS THAT YOU DON’T KNOW HOW TO DEAL WITH.ASK ME IN THE COMMENTS BELOW.WE WILL SURELY HELP YOU TO SAVE YOUR RELATIOSHIP
  
  

   

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How to steal Boyfriend

How to Get a Guy to Break Up with His Girlfriend and Hook Up with You


Do you have a guy friend that is slowly but surely becoming attractive to you? Does he already have a girlfriend? Do you wanna go out with him? Then read this article, be patient and the results may end up in your favor.

Communication

1.Keep communication going. Try to talk to him more than he talks to his girlfriend. If he talks to his girlfriend once a week, then text/talk to him every 

2 days. Keep the juices flowing and don't bore him. But don't become too obsessive with him or he might feel like he's being suffocated.

3.Don't mention his girlfriend. If he brings her up, Let him know you don't want to talk about her by quickly, yet smoothly changing the subject. Don't say things like that they are cute together or that they make a great couple. You will just make him think you aren't interested and that you are okay with them dating.

TRY THIS ALSO

1.Wear cute clothes. Your attire should be sexy but classy. Keep your hair and make-up natural while still standing out. You want him to see that you are physically appealing as well.


2.Flirt with other boys. A guaranteed way to make a guy attracted to you is by making him jealous and making yourself seem unattainable. Talk with other boys and give them attention when he is in the same area. Observe his reaction. If he is staring at you while you do this, it is probably a good sign.
3.Perfume walk-up. Wear a nice smelling perfume and walk by him. Observe his reaction once you pass.


OTHER METHODS

1.Be there for him. Make yourself the person he comes to when he has problems or needs advice. If he invites you to an event, do your best to be there. You want to present yourself to him as someone who is reliable and trustworthy.

2.Strengthen the friendship. Most good relationships are based off an initial friendship. Spend time with him regularly and just get to know him better as a person, without pressure or expectations.

3.Don't lie. You should never lie about yourself and especially about his girlfriend. If the guy you like found out that you lied to him about something so basic, there is no chance he will ever go out with you.

4.Smile Smile when you see him. This will let him know that you are happy to see him. If you see him somewhere, say hi to let him know that you notice him.



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9 things you should never say to your boyfriend

Do you fake an orgasm when you actually didn't? Or find faults with the your husband's way of handling the kids, or pester him to find a new job? If yes, you may be making irreparable damages to your relationship.

Following is a list of nine statements compiled by Judy Ford, psychotherapist and author of 'Every Day Love' that you should never utter to your significant other, reports the Mother Nature Network.

1.First comes: "Yes, I had an orgasm."

2.Another statement that is a strict no-no is "You're just like your father." It's nasty and belittling, says Ford.

3.The third forbidden statement is actually very common: "When are you going to find a new job?"

4.The fourth hurtful statement is: "My mother warned me you'd do this!"

5.The fifth line, which is never a good idea to say, is "Just leave it - I'll do it myself!" Just because he's doing something differently than you would doesn't mean that he's doing it wrong.

6.The sixth statement, which can be heart breaking, is "You always... [fill in the blank]" or "You never... [fill in the blank]"

7.Then seventh statement that can be a serious blow is "Do you really think those pants are flattering?"

Saying so, you're insulting his looks without showing any genuine concern for his health, according to Ford.

8.Then eighth harsh statement is "Ugh, we're hanging out with him again?, which is an insult to your man's choice of friends.

9.The last but not the least is "Please watch the kids. But don't do this, take them here or forget that..." Let Dad-be-dad. (ANI)

10 ways to Say I love u without words

1. Note among Flowers 

When it comes to confessing your love, you should leave no stone unturned. For men who feel awkward expressing their emotions verbally, gifting your ladylove a flurry of bouquets will work wonders. You can also give her a rose everyday for an assigned month to keep her guessing about your intentions. At the end of the assigned time, give her an ‘I love you’ note instead of the usual flower and watch as she blushes with delight.









2. Say it with a Song 
If you’re a keen musician, professing your feelings during a public performance will be an excellent way. Compose a unique song for her or create a medley of popular love songs and serenade her in public. Belting out your emotions in a public setting will have her swooning with affection.













3. Cook for Her 
Women are rendered helplessly affectionate for men who, if cannot whip up a decent meal, can at least initiate the gesture. If you’re planning to confess your feelings to your sweetheart, put your culinary skills to use. Prepare a romantic candle-lit evening and enjoy gourmet delights in the company of your beloved. Bring out a frosted cake, just in time for dessert with your confession written in icing. Will this surprise not only knock her off her feet, but will be the best memory of her life too.

4. Treasure Hunt 
A treasure hunt is the simplest yet most creative way of saying I love you, without sounding it out. Leave clues for her around the house, with each clue inexorably pointing towards the other. Let the final clue point to a piece of paper in your pocket. As she reaches for it, let her read your confession on paper. She will be pleasantly surprised and be swooning at your gesture.






5. Love Letter

Nothing can match up to the age-old yet simple method of confessing your love. A perfumed love letter transcends all gestures to become the ultimate tool for letting your sweetheart know about your feelings. This is an excellent ruse for people who have a way with words. Write about how she makes you feel and be as honest as you can. Seal the letter with love and mail it to her. The day she receives the letter will undoubtedly be the best day of her life.

6. Say it With Jewellery 
Nothing says ‘I Love You’ better than a piece of customized jewellery. If you are on a low budget and want to make a creative impression, you can handcraft a bracelet for her. Buy an inexpensive love-related trinket and wind it around a wearable piece of string. Pack it appropriately in a ribbon-tied box and let her revel in the emotions of the moment.






7. Shoot it 
If you are feeling creative, shooting a sequence to show how much you care will work wonders. Double it up as a surprise and show up just when the video ends, in time to see the pleasantly surprised look on your partner’s face










8. Where you first met 
The place where you first met has a lot of significance for any couple. And saying ‘I love you’ couldn’t be more heartfelt in any other place.

9. Write it in the sand
To make your expression of love memorable, why not pay a visit to the seaside for a date? You can write a love message in the sand when your loved one isn’t looking and when they turn around they’ll be in for a surprise. If it all goes wrong, tell them someone else wrote it and run for the hills. If it goes to plan –please say it goes to plan – take a photograph of it afterwards so you can frame it and remember the moment for years to come.

10. Be tourists in your own city
Plan and hit the zoo or an amusement park. You’ll have a ball while in the ride or watching the animals, and the best thing is that might also burn more fat walking around, than when you cycle in a gym.










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