How to know if he is possessive or hypocrite

 Nowadays men are becoming more hypocrites. That means they will have rules for you and no rules for themselves. Sometimes you cannot tell the difference where men/boyfriends have rules for your own good or for their own ego satisfaction. We will discuss some of the behavior changes which will tell you if he is a hypocrite or possessive. Before moving further let me know what type of relationship crisis are you facing and I can make some guidelines to get you out of the situation.  

Rules about social media.

There are around 98% of a couple who had their fight about the social media platform(Facebook, Insta, Snapchat)you might wonder if he is being possessive or hypocrite. let's find below.

Possessive: if your boyfriend has a suggestion for you about your few male friends. Then he might be right cause boy knows better boys than girls. They will know what intention he has as a friend and he just wants you to be safe. you should appreciate that there is someone in your life who cares for you. Don't think that he is not giving you space/Privacy. Put your ego aside and make sure you appreciate that you have someone in your life to take care of you.

Hypocrite: When you notice that he have a problem every like every post or every pic you post on social media and he is asking you to unfollow/unfriend all male friends of yours then you will know he is a hypocrite and you should end it as soon as possible. One more reason to break up is that you will find him always using social media platform but asks you not use anymore. End it immediately don't wait till Christmas.

Rules about your dressing 

 

there can numerous times where he will tell you that you should only wear full clothes and no more mini skirts spaghetti straps sleeveless etc, now how can you tell whether he is possessive or he is a hypocrite.

Possessive: These types of the boyfriend are the on who will tell you to dress properly instead of commenting how cheap you look. they will always try to give you the legitimate reason why they are acting like that .may be the area or the surrounding is not appropriate to the dress or style. after a while, you will be able to understand that the reason he is giving you that advice about your dressing. keep an open mind before getting into a fight.

Hypocrite: this type of boyfriends will give you 100 reason why you should change your style and wear full sleeves of full length dress. so how to know if he is possessive or hypocrite .there is a simple solution he will ask you to change your dressing sense permanently and won't be able to handle your modern styling of choices of dress. When you know he hates all of your wardrobe that means he is hypocrite.

Rules about every aspect of your life 

 

Now dressing styling and social media is one thing but when you feel that the person is asking you to change everything for him them it’s confirmed that he is being selfish and don’t want you to have your opinion or thinking

Possessive: When you have boyfriend that really cares for you then you will know that he don’t hate you from where you belong or what are your surroundings .all they will care about is what type of person you are and what quality you have. Being possessive means he will respect every aspect of your life may won’t accept. May be he won’t like where you live or relatives or friends circle but he will eventually try to make you understand that you different he will try to make sure that you are safe and secure,

Hypocrite: Every aspect of your life will not be tolerated by him. All he will thinking about how to make you realize that he is doing you favor by accepting you and you should be lucky to have him. If you are in relationship similar to this situation then I would suggest you leave him and never look back even if it means you have to be alone forever.

The reason I am telling you is he will always make you feel the same way and instead of being partner he will be your boss and will make you feel in wanted all the time

 

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